“I contacted Rhi after being recommended by a close friend following me telling her how upset and frustrated I was regarding my health, my partner and the lack of sexual intimacy.

I was anxious about discussing these private matters with a total stranger.
Even from the first contact Rhi put me at ease, allowing me to explain in my own way and without rushing me what the issues were that brought me to them. Rhi listened sympathetically and without judgement. They asked questions to clarify understanding.

Rhi’s advice has enabled me to not feel guilty about giving myself pleasure and has taken in account my physical disabilities.
I feel at ease with my body and allowing myself to have pleasure away from my partner.
I am so glad I was put in touch with Rhi. I will continue to explore other issues with them regarding how to explain to my partner how I feel, which I struggle with for mental health reasons. I know that I can trust Rhi to guide and teach me the skills I need to ensure both my partner and I are sexually fulfilled.

Thank you for all you have done for me Rhi and I cannot recommend you highly enough, you are truly AMAZING!”

V, 45.


“My sex life has been happy – the joy of my life.  However recently my disability (muscular dystrophy) has got much worse.  I am very weak and now a wheelchair user.

I turned to Rhi for advice on how to continue to enjoy sexual pleasure within the new physical constraints my body imposes on me.  Rhi visited me at my home on two occasions and we corresponded by e-mail.

Rhi is an honourable, honest and trustworthy person who gives you more than your “money’s worth” in time and effort.  They really enjoys their work and is enthusiastic about it.

Rhi is calm, friendly and personable, always easy to talk to.  Hearts can be opened to Rhi but they are not intrusive and respects your personal space.

Rhi helped me to see the erotic as something rich, playful and wild.  A world where a disabled person can find a home.

I would without reservation recommend Rhi to anyone seeking to enjoy a positive sex life.

Rhi has helped me and I am truly grateful.”

Mostyn 64


“I’ve had huge hangups around the subject of  sex for most of my life, and tried talking to friends about it, but that didn’t work, as it can be a really awkward subject to discuss with friends, the more so when you’re gay and they are not. I needed to be able to discuss the subject in a safe environment where I knew that I wouldn’t suffer censure or cause embarassment – or risk losing a friend.

I became a client of Rhi’s in desperation, hoping that they might be able to help, but I didn’t get my hopes up – after all, I’d been hungup about sexual matters for decades, maybe I might not be able to get over it now.

Happily, I was wrong. I’ve been as delighted as I have been surprised to note the effect the correspondence with Rhi has had on me.  What it has achieved, thus far, has been priceless to me.  I was able to explore my feelings about a whole range of things I’d never been able to talk about to anyone else before, and as a result I feel a lot calmer, and more relaxed about it all, for the first time in my life. I’ve come to realise and accept that my feelings and desires are pretty normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

I wholeheartedly recommend Rhi’s services to anyone else suffering with feelings of guilt or shame about sex. Rhi’s amiable relaxed style really helps to put one at ease, I very quickly felt assured that here is a person I can trust to help me with this most personal of problems.
I cannot thank her enough for how much better I feel already as a result of our correspondence.”

Esme, 59